8 Ways TO MAKE A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION

Since childhood, children’s parents have always been preparing them to go out into the real world and “impress.” Was this training really for the sake of the child, or was it more for the parents to show off having well-behaved kids? As these children turn into adults and enter the world of dating, the pressure falls solely on the child turned adult. So, what kind of attributes, habits, and ways of speaking are most desirable to those we seek to attract? It’s time to dive deeper and find what daters need in their arsenal to be successful when showing themselves off.

1. Smile!

The way one shows off their vibe is by the look and feel they display. Confidence is key. The most straightforward way to display confidence is a simple smile. Imagine walking into a bar full of singles with grimacing looks on their faces versus entering a party filled with lively people, smiling, and ready to get to know each other. AJ Harbinger of The Art of Charm notes, “smiling makes you appear more confident to those around you. What’s more, it makes you feel more confident on the inside. This creates an awesome feedback loop where you smile, look more confident, get treated as a more confident man [or woman] and act more confidently in the future.”

2. Eye Contact

The dating scene is inherently anxiety-provoking, but one major key to navigating it is to always be engaged. Remember, everyone is nervous and on edge; you, one dater, are not the first to feel this discomfort. Show interest. It’s respectful, attractive, and who knows? The person you speak to could have lovely eyes!

3. Body Language

What’s worse than approaching someone with a noxious look on their face? Approaching someone with a noxious look on their face slouched in the corner! In order to add to the level of confidence already exhibited with a smile, it’s crucial to stand tall, be firm, and be welcoming.

4. Dress the Part

Dress to stand out! Anna Newell from And Then We Saved states that “you will give an instant impression just by what you choose to wear.” With that said, dress appropriately for the occasion, look clean, and appear as though time was spent putting your outfit together.

5. Punctuality

Once there is a predetermined time and place to meet for a coffee, a drink, or for dinner, there is no going back. Be on time! Punctuality indicates interest. Once late, the chances of a first impression of being flaky and unreliable go up. Give yourself a chance to present the first impression you want to and arrive when promised!

6. Optimism/Happiness

The majority of daters flock toward potential partners who show up with positive attitudes and appear happy to be there. Paul Hudson of Elite Daily claims that “this energy is a result of real happiness and gives a person the look of being more alive and more at the moment. There’s nothing sexier than a person completely present in the moment.”

7. Be Unforgettable

Okay, maybe don’t do something completely off the rails. However, it is in your best interest to share something unique with them to make a potential partner remember them for you. Perhaps share a funny story, show off a hidden talent, or order something eccentric off of the menu, By doing so, you’re proving your individuality, while also leaving a lasting impression.

8. Leave Them Wanting More

Of course, dialogue should include both parties introducing themselves, showing off positive traits, and attempting to make grand first impressions. Moreover, it’s considerably paramount that one stands out. Talk about hobbies, favorite movies, favorite bands, favorite restaurants, and hot spots in the city. More often than not, there will be one common interest made. Focus on that one! People will be more eager to relate to someone if that person shows to have passion and a unique personality.

 

Keep in mind: The entire point of putting yourself out there is to achieve your personal dating goals. With the foundation of a solid impression, dating will become enjoyable and positive outcomes may come sooner than you think!

Author: Sari Ghamar

References:

https://theartofcharm.com/dating-tips/dating-tips-men-smiling-important/

https://andthenwesaved.com/make-a-good-impression/

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